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Sorry if this is going to be boring....because it is such a common experience, and a common complaint from both sides..but here goes:.aren't there any real people left? Paid dating sites don't have them, getting out and being seen around town doesn't help, friends and family, forget it. Imposters are abundant,....people who have all the apparent qualities of looks, manners, intelligence, maturity, etc., and even often say all the right things at first, but then cut out the minute the going gets real...the minute someone is being asked to risk a little of their faith and confidence in themselves, and in human nature, and in the truth that no one is perfect, or is being asked to have some trust that working into a serious relationship takes work, giving, honesty, patience, and the rewards are truly worth it, even though there is some risk involved in extending yourself and not getting the prize - it is not a fatal experience and you might even learn about yourself, grow a little, be better off for the next time you try to improve your life by finding a life partner you can relax with, enjoy, and be yourself and be fulfilled in your needs and desires for what God created us to want - a close loving relationship with a partner who we can trust, respect, enjoy and love. You don't get there in three easy steps, but in spite of the "news" there are a ton of happy couples out there who have found a way.So, if you believe this stuff still, like I do, and are tired of being alone at all the wrong times, maybe a nice and real woman like me might interest you. I am attractive, intelligent, funny, enthusiastic, sensuous, with a good set of values and lots of interests, plus a real desire to treat a great guy really well....to make him happy as we grow ourselves into one of those lucky couples who have a million little moments together they wouldn't trade for the world. This is a great time, this weekend, to begin making memories of our own, and to enjoy and laugh and rela