Plumpnsweet38, 52

I dated a Soldier for almost 1 1/2 yrs I am a single mom with 4 girls ages 10, 12, 14, and 16. I live in Valdosta GA and I am in my 4th year of undergraduate studies at VSU. My major is Biology. I Plan to go to medical school after I complete my Bachelors at VSU. I am 5'5, 220lb but working on weight loss..already lost 96 lbs..down from 314 to 220. I do not work, not because I dont want to but because the job market here is not so great, just as in alot of places. I am looking to meet a real man, and by that I mean a good man, a man who will be honest, and faithful and true and loyal and dedicated...i want a man that is willing to communicate and that has his priorities straight. I need a man who understands that I am a package deal. I am not looking for a daddy for my kids, they have a daddy, but the man in my life has to love and respect my children and understand that they are my number one priority and I am mom FIRST. I want a man that can support my dreams and goals...I want a man that I can walk beside, not in front of or behind of..I want a man I can treat like a king, and let me be his one and only queen. I want a man who can wine me and dine me with love and attention and passion, as well as compassion and understanding. I am not a materialistic person, and what i am looking for in a man wont cost him a dime, just his love and attention and time. I am a good woman. I have a good heart. Id give the shirt off my back for anyone who needs it, even my enemy. I am loving, kind, passionate person. I dont lie, cheat or steal or play games, I am honest and real and I want the same qualities in a man. I am not a jealous or possessive person, i am very caring and understanding and trust and honesty and communication is very important and is a must.