Militarylover81, 43

I am a 31 yr old single mom of 3 kids. I own my own wedding/event planning business, I am a substitue teacher and a live in care giver for my grandmother who has Alzheimers. I am active in my church, my kids school, their sporting events and beauty pageants, and my community. I am not looking for a one night stand, an open relationship or a ---. I want someone to date grow a relationship with that will lead to marriage. I suffered a spinal injury a few years back and was just released by my doctor to start exercising again after two yrs of physical therapy. So yes as of now I am fat but that is something that is NOT acceptable for me I am back to exercising everyday and will be back to normal soon. Just wanted to put that out there because i believe in total honesty and nothing less. I have many hobbies and interest such as but not limited to : motorcycles, guns and target shooting, archery, wine tasting, 4wheelers, camping, fishing, swimming, dancing, traveling, spending time with my kids, and many more things. I dont have a certain "type" of guy I like when it comes to apperances but I will say I do not date black guys or most hispanics, again total honesty, everyone has a prefrence and thats mine. I want a man that is a Christian, either a man that has kids or wil accept mine as his own, someone with the same morals, beliefs, and standards I have, I would love to find a man that is committed to making the Military a lifetime career. But most importany will love his wife as in ephesians 5:25. "husbands love your wives as Christ loed the church". My father raised me wotb the mindset that marriage is 100%on each side not 50 50 and he taught me to ask myself each morning what can i do to make my spoused day better or their life easier? This is simething i strive to do in every relationship im in. To sum it all up the love i have to give and the person i am is what ever man says he wished he had but me up for the chick thats easy. lol