Litlmissmarti, 50

intelligent me, seeks tony stark type personality I dont live a stressed based life. Life just isnt near as complicated as some people make it out to be. I am very busy though.
I have alot I aim to accopmlish but want to enjoy my journey along the way. I am interested in a man who is a positive role model for my 5 year old son.I am trying to raise him right. One who can handle my love and positive (but alot) of energy.I also need equal amounts of alone time. dont get offended or butthurt that i like myself.
I am funny,sometimes really funny...
I am willing to go the extra mile to help anyone with a problem, "I am a problem solver" as long as they are trying to help themselves.
I am a student and will be for many years. I know who I am and what I want. I want someone who loves themself and wants to share that love with a companion. I am also not in a huge hurry,
I am pretty independent and need my space now and again. but so does everyone. I am honest and very loyale, and great with all kids.
I also believe that times wont always be easy....my grandma said about being married to my grandpa, 12 years werent the easiest, and 7 were some of the worst but out of over 50 that wasnt so bad.
Seeing her by his side every moment till he passed left quite an impression on me and view of what marriage means. I also am a very happy person and want to be happy for as much of my life as possible.
Some people just drain other peoples energy, and some do the opposite. Everyone is different....I tend to be the type that people are drawn to.
At times though it can be draining when everyone needs a piece of my energy. and I need to break away and be alone.
The person who is right for me wont drain me, but be someone I can be alone with to relax and re-energize. Some people just have that balanced chemistry and thats what i want. I want a man wth a good moral code...you know this is right... that is wrong....the teacher isnt looking go for it....attitude