Irishmusiclover, 40

Hello. My name is Tabitha and I am a five year navy veteran who lives in New York. I am attending college as a liberal arts major and plan on working towards a degree in music therapy or nursing after finishing my associates degree. I am a christian who has christian values but isn't afraid to enjoy a drink or two every now and then. I need a man who loves and respects me for all that I am and not for what he wants me to be. I don't play games and don't tolerate them either. Whether I like you or not, you will know and I expect my partner to have the same attitude. Guessing games are more headaches than they are worth and if you try to play them with me, you will be directed to the door. I have been hurt in the past but I try to leave all baggage at the door. Baggage is not cute and if I feel like I'm competing against your ex wife, ex girlfriend or so called "baby momma" the relationship will come to a halt. Please do not email me if you are taken, married, or separated. I have respect for marriage and feel that marriage vows are sacred. Lies are not tolerated. I prefer to lay my cards on the table from the beginning and so should you. If you can not tell, I am very straight forward and to the point. My interests and hobbies include running, taking long walks in the evening, wine, cheese, culture, swimming, watching movies and music (my favorite genres are pop, irish music and country - very unusual for a New Yorker). Now you've seen my tough side, but like most christian girls, I have a very caring, compassionate and sweet side as well. You will learn that fast when you get to know me. I'm not racist in any way but I prefer to stick with men of my own race.