Happysportsmom, 47

I am a happy woman, I suppose looking for something I have never had. The complete package. A person who challenges me in every way that keeps a relationship solid. I am a content person in every aspect of my life, so I have no problem taking my time finding the right fit for me. I am single, but not desperate. I am not a huge fan of Internet dating, however, I have limited visibility in the dating world. I am done with the bar scene, and besides my girlfriends and I getting together every month or so, I really just don't go to bars at all.
I have a ten yr old son who's father and I have shared parenting. I get my son 3-4 days a wk, and we also do the every other weekend thing. So I do have a fair amount of free time to spend with my guy. My son and I go to every sporting event we can. We love to be active. When the weather permitted, we played tennis 2x week, and also golfed. We go to the Y and play basketball, and share in the love of football. He plays football and baseball, and does very well in both. I get along well with his father, as we are amicable for the happiness and stability of our son. If you are a parent with an ex, please have no ex drama. I don't have any drama in my life and I am not looking for it.
The right fit for me? I think I will just know it when I see it. There are so many things that I find essential when looking for someone long-term. We just have to click in every way. I want to be physically attracted to my guy, but I also want someone I can talk to and confide in. I want a man, not a wimp. I do not date smokers,nor people who do not take care of their responsibilities(kids, job, bills, family). I want someone who has an open sense of humor and can have fun everywhere. I am a sucker for someone who can make me laugh. I prefer someone who enjoys sports. I am kind of a girly tomboy. I love watching and playing sports. I am a Niners and a Yankees fan. I am def the girl you can take to the hole in the wall bar and watch a football game