Cocoababy, 43

Wanting to fulfill my patriotic duty I'am who I'am....no more no less. I can be many things and I don't expect to be able to describe it all. But the way I see it, you either love me or hate me. I can be sweet and coy, but also opinionated and stubborn if it is something I feel is true to me. I will definitely keep anyone on their toes and not knowing what to expect at each moment.

I love to laugh, make fun of myself. I think fun can be had in many ways, and even more so when you are with the right company. I'm not looking for a hit it and run type of relationship, I looking to date, and really create the foundation of something that is long lasting and of substance. I like to create valuable relationships, ones that are true, genuine and sometimes rare. I think the first steps for getting to that great relationship is to start with honesty and sincerity.

In a partner I am looking for not someone who is perfect, but someone who is beautifully flawed, so we can grow and evolve together and hopefully make light of all our shortcomings with lots of laughter and care. Someone who is smart, that we can talk and have conversations about little things, big things...whatever we choose. And someone who wants to do things and wants to continue to challenge themselves.
I'm looking for a serious partner. I have done the partying, I have done the random guy dating....I have done it all. I feel that it is time to change gears and look for something more substantial and value creating. I want a relationship that will eventually lead to marriage....Of course not right away because I still need time. But I want someone that will support me in my dreams and goals and I can do the same for him. We will grow and develop as individuals which will make our relationship as a couple much more rich. Someone who strives to live a life that is true to what is in his heart. A person who can hold a great conversation and tell great stories. Someone I can share all matters of life with who will be a great friend and lover