Do Military men go for bigger women?

[jessa24]

Ok so I am a bigger women looking for a Military guy and somehow I can't find one so I was wondering if there are any Military guy's interested. Please don't bash me.

[beaniebaby1989]

`I have the same question... though I did marry a soldier that said he didn't mind but when our marriage began to end I discovered that that was another one of his lies... so idk...

[honeybee30 (deleted)]

`Wow! I have always wondered about a military guy would be interested in a plus size woman. Some military guys have their preferences in women. In my city, it is a big deal. I think they should be looking for someone to compatible with. It is a shame looks have to be a center of attention. I understand because I am a big woman.

[rightgeek]

`Generally they're big on fitness (for obvious reasons). The largest consistent (not necessarily majority) opinion on big women was "you've got to be trying to not be fat." That's if you count all age ranges. Go for the 18-30 single male demographic and "no" IS the majority opinion.

Keep in mind, they work with females who must keep a modicum of fitness. Fair or not, the assumption is "you can do it too."

[mtoz]

`Hi all. beaniebaby I'm very sorry to hear about your ended marriage. If I may share my thoughts with you: if a man is going to lie or cheat, he will do that because he is a liar/cheater, despite whether or not you are a "bigger woman". What men (and women too) often forget is: 1) we all have different genes. Some of us can eat one jelly bean and gain a pound, some others have the opposite body type and struggling to gain weight (like myself) and we look at you and think how blessed you girls are It's not as simple as saying "well if that girl can look as awesome as that you should be able to do that too, no excuse". That's not the case. Bottom line is, each person's gene is different than the other so not all of us girls will look like a beautiful hourglass (if we do the world would be boring!). As long as we maintain good health, looking after ourselves by eating good nutrition and do regular exercise, that is what matters! 2) we also forget that the make up of men are very different than women. Men are naturally stronger and women are more delicate. That is just our nature. Women have curves and men don't. Women have monthly periods and men don't. For this purpose, women are able to bear a child and nurse their child. Women fluctuate up and down with their weight precisely because of their hormones, compare to male who are more stable, because they don't get pregnant or give birth or breastfeed or have periods. One cannot compare a man and a woman like they are both apples. A real man will understand and "cherish" his wife who will gain weight after having a child, have excess belly, stretch marks and all, because he understands that all of those are a sign of her love for him by giving him his child! so jessa24, do not worry, there will be a real man who will cherish you for who you are...military or not. I hope all of you will find your happiness this new year!

[lovelife73]

`I think this is a fair question but I got 2 say that it truly has to do with the guy and what type they like. Not all guys want to date a toothpick or a girl that turns sideways and she gets marked absent.

You can't put all men in the same category because that's like saying all the cheerleaders are "Mean Girls!!"

there are guys who like a girl with meat on there bones. Some guys say the bigger the better. They r not confident so they think a bigger woman is the same way and can b controlled and they can get away with it.

I'm separated from my husband and when I got gastric by-pass and lost about 70 lbs. he didn't find me attractive anymore. He was 28 at the time.

So it really depends on the man. :-)

[plumpbeautyqt]

`I know this post is older but it depends on the individual like someone mentioned. I happen to be married to a very handsome, very fit military spouse and I'm a plus sized woman. He wants to stay in the marriage but I don't so that tells you that as a bigger woman, we have options too. They say military men are either married to hotties or cows lol. Being a bigger girl, you can be a hottie as well ;)

[k05t4r (deleted)]

`I'd say that the important thing is, dont let your size determine your self-worth and confidence. There are lots of men and women that are "fit" and who are attracted to heavier/bigger men and women.

I know why people look for the physical attributes they look for but in the end, everything superficial, physical appearance/physique, money/intelligence etc, all of these things CAN be taken away by disease, tragedy, government and business entities. So in my opinion its best NOT to base relationships upon such things. Especially long-term relationships like marriage. It seems ridiculous that so many would get married because somehow they think "the person I'm marrying will not/cannot change in any way."

That is just delusional. People can and do change in all aspects. Be sure to build and retain confidence and dont give up hope of one day finding that special someone if that is indeed a desire rooted in your heart!