Does love really exist or is ---- where it all begins?

[rnlatinprincess]

Sure wish relationships were based on love......

Sharri from Florida

[kittykitty88 (deleted)]

.I like to believe that love really does exist!
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[kittykitty88 (deleted)]

.I like to believe that love really does exist!
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[rnlatinprincess]

`I once had a date with a man... who at first appeared to be the respectful type and quite charming. As the date went on I saw he wasnt for me (rudeness) and I explained that in a nice way. Well needless to say he had a final question for me as he walked me to my car.........He asked "Why do women need to fall in love before intimacy and why do you think men need to be intimate before they can fall in love? Well needless to say that was the last I wanted see of him. Morals are .....spend time with someone before you give that special part of yourself because once you give in all respect is lost. So he ----ed for something that in no way he earned. As I drove away I said cause babe your not worth my time

[azdumper_PREV (deleted)]

`Relationships are built on compatability ... yet; love and ---- go hand-in-hand ... you can't have one without the other.

[a1cblake (deleted)]

azdumper does have a point. Love and ---- do go hand in hand, but you can have can feel a strong attraction to someone without having to go as far as giving up that special part of yourself. I dated this girl for 3 years that we honestly had that special bond where we were comfortable with the way we felt about each other. during those 3 years, not once did we express our affection to each other other than the pg/ pg-13 stuff. All it takes is a matter of finding that person.

[gialove20]

.how i feel about Iraq- I love the fact that all of our military is going over to Iraq but when is it time we pull them out and help our own people and all the other national disasters that are going on?

[gilravadry]

.....okay. Not exactly sure why Iraq got brought up in this area, but since we're talking about relationships...

The answer to your question is: Never. Sure, we might reduce the number of troops to an insignifigant token force, but likely we'll alwys have SOME presence, to protect our interests and advance the standards. A good portion of the problem is perception: Whatever our actions are, we have to contend with how the rest of the world sees us. If they see us tuck-and-run, we will be percieved as weak, which will come to haunt us later.

The other item concerns the relationship between the service branches and their design; The Marines for example, were designed to kick *ss and take names, not become an occupation force or a relief agency - The National Guard is for civil disasters and disorder. Simply put, I wouldn't use a fork to eat soup. It's all about having the right tool for the job.

-Ryan

-Stay safe, carry ALWAYS, and when the need is greatest, a 1911 is faster than 911.

[stormygoddess]

`gilravadry

Love the quote hon

and a 1911 is much faster than 911 lol

[angierae]

`I believe you really can't have one without the other, it's really hard to say though. You can take my life for instince...I am recently separated from my husband of 15 years. I love him with all my heart but I don't really love him that way which is why I chose to leave and be true to myself and find true love. I met a guy in the army, our relationship was based completely on ---- from the very beginning, i sure loved those butterfles he gave me though, I thought I loved him and hoped he loved me but it took me finding my soulmate to wake me up and realize that wasn't true. With my soulmate, I took one look at his picture and just felt drawn to him, not se---lly though so the ---- wasn't there at first. We got to know each other and I fell in love with him, finally met him in person and confirmed my feelings i had for him. The ---- came after love with him, and believe me it's there now.
So I"m not sure what the answer is, I guess with true love, love should come first, but without ---- mine would have never approached me in the first place.

[KRYS91 (deleted)]

`I Believe that yes, it starts with ----. Then developes into more. Im a spiritual person, Although We have developed more as humans, We are still Animals of the earth, And we Seek to mate. So naturally, when you first see someone I believe it's s----l attraction that influances you to talk to them, and vice versa. Like I said above, We are the most developed of all the animals of the earth, so We are able to deepen our relationships into meaningful bonds. Such as Love.

[southernfinery]

`so you guys think love and ---- go hand in hand huh?ok well if you will indulge me for a minute I would like to put forth my prespective.---If ---- is a natural human emotion and is indeed tied in with love then how do blind people find love?If you're thinking that they may feel ---- from the voice of the other then let's add deaf as well,so now what do they do?Imo ---- is like a very end-of-the-rope kinda deal or the beginning of a downward spiral especially if it is what draws you into a relationship.I know ya have heard the expression"eye candy"well that is ---- speaking.Imo some folks have to learn to deny ---- more then others just like some have to deny sweets more then others

[lovelife73]

`I know that every relationship starts out in the honeymoon stage. Some people think it's new, hot, fun and exciting. The guy puts it in the ---- category. Girls either know how the guy feels and she stays strong and doesn't fall for him right away, or she puts it all on the line and gets a dream come true or a broken heart.

Friendship can start out great then the vibes take over and for the guy it usually becomes a conquest which is ----, or the girl feels like she needs to chase him because he is keeping it in the BFF zone and suddenly she can't have what other girls are getting from him.

So when the ---- ends like every honeymoon phase it will either move to the next step of growing into love or the attraction will end for either party and you either end the relationship all together or if you are strong you can go back to being friends.